- Pull the trigger: – Do you want a new best friend or a new girlfriend? Only you can answer that question for yourself and only you can determine which ends up happening. Eventually you will develop a clock in your head naturally that will tell you when to progress things to the phone or in person, but until you do be mindful of your actions. Sure you can have a great chat buddy, but the next guy will be dating her if you sit on your butt and don’t make a move. Do not be afraid to be bold. Even if she isn’t ready for the next step, chances are you will be able to gage how close she is by her response.
- You’re a grown up. Act like one: – This is the #1 rule of thumb in my opinion when it comes to online dating period. You are a mature grown man and you need to convey that in everything you do. Ask yourself before you’re about to write or post anything to any of your profiles, “is this childish?” If you can’t come up with a clear answer, you probably know you shouldn’t do it.
- Stalking is illegal! Be genuine and make the women comfortable: – This is a very serious concern for women who post their personal information online. You cannot stop creeps online, so you have to make sure you do not come off as one. This should take common sense and could be simple as giving her some space. People do have lives away from the PC you know!
Meeting Women Online
January 23, 2009 · Comments Off
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How To Successfully Meet And Approach Women
January 22, 2009 · Comments Off
I came across a book that was written by a guy named Joseph that teaches guys how to successfully meet and approach women. Something that he wrote about in that book prompted me to do a little experiment.
Basically, the experiment was as follows (try it yourself): I went out to a local nightclub with a friend of mine and made a point to watch and listen to the pickup efforts of other guys. Here’s what we heard when the first group of super hot girls walked by;
“Good God, You’re Hot”, “Watcha doin’ later”, “Where ya goin’”, “Hey, come back here and hang out”, etc.
I couldn’t believe the crap that I was hearing. It shouldn’t surprise you to hear that most of the lines these guys used while trying to meet women (or any of the other pieces of crap lines I heard that night) did not yield the results that each and every guy were blindly hoping to get.
The FUNNY thing is, these guys’ piece of crap lines present “gold nugget” opportunities for you and your buddies. Here’s why! It should be no surprise that good looking women are always approached and that guys are always trying to meet them. The problem is, it’s usually by guys using the “piece of crap lines” that I mentioned earlier.
Here’s where you capitalize. It’s by using a technique that Joseph refers to as a situational opener. Basically, you’d use the other guys failed attempts as an opener (but you’re going to be much more creative, right?).
So these hot girls are walking by and you hear these pathetic lines being hurled at the girls AND YOU might say something like this: “Oh my god! Every single guy is trying to pick you up! How annoying is that? You aught to hire BODYGUARDS just to keep all these horny kooks at bay!”
Taking advantage of situational openers like these to approach women can open many doors that have previously been closed (for the other guys anyway).
In addition, it shows that you have a mutual understanding of the reality you are both experiencing. This can help create an instant connection between the two of you.
This is just one of hundreds of situational openers. Remember, if you do the same thing the other unsuccessful guys are doing, you’ll likely end up with the same crummy results.
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There Are Many Ways To Meet Women
January 21, 2009 · Comments Off
- By Choice- this is what what most men would like, but very few have. The choice to leave their homes saying to themselves “I’m going to meet a beautiful woman today”. Going out and meeting that cute girl that you know works at the local shop and taking her home simply because you want to. Learning to pickup women by choice is the only way you’ll ever get good at it and achieve the results you desire! Do NOT sit around and wait for a woman to meet you, or get hooked up by friends!
- Preplanned- setup like a blind date, or you were hooked up by a middle man.
- Randomly- right time, right place, some women call this “love at first sight” or whatever… its really just chance. Good luck going through your daily routine for the next __? years waiting to meet Ms. Right.
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Meeting Wome Over The Internet
January 20, 2009 · Comments Off
You might have noticed how big meet women over the Internet has gotten latly – but why?
You may have created some accounts in dating sites without asking yourself why this dating style is very common and famous. In fact, online dating cannot be considered as a dating trend like “blind dates” way back in the 90s and the recent “speed dating”. Still we cannot deny the fact that dating online is the most efficient hookup place of today’s modern world. Most dating sites demand a little service and membership fees to continue meeting probable girlfriends. There are also some dating sites that are free or offer a month of free service.
The main reason behind the success of online dating and those dating sites is the mere fact that it has many benefits. Here are some of the benefits that you will get from online dating:
* You can meet women across borders, from Asia or from Europe
* It is cheaper. With voice calling, you can talk online without shouldering international calling rates.
* Caters to shy individuals. Dating online can make you more expressive that dating in person.
* Compatibility. With profiles posted, you have an idea of what a woman is and what she likes and dislikes. You will only go for women who catch your attention in terms of physical attributes and their inclination.
* Preferences. With so many dating sites, you can marrow down your exact preferences about women. You will know what you exactly want and where you can find them.
Is online dating for you?
Contrary to what most people perceive about online dating this niche is not for the perverts and deviants only. With its attractive dating benefits there are also some bad things that threaten. There may be some risks at hand like they posted the wrong picture but the longer you date with a woman, you will know what she really is.
And with cameras and voice chatting, it’s almost like you are talking to each other personally. The important thing is that if you have found a girl you want to date, take time to get to know her just like regular dating But you need to invest more time in getting to know a woman you met online to know her real intentions and sincerity. Same goes for you, a woman will feel more assured of your real feelings.
Before signing up for a dating site, look around and find the best site that suits you. Take your time and be honest about yourself. There have been many cases of successful relationships that even led to marriages that took its roots from online dating So go ahead and try dating online, there are millions of women waiting for you!
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Meeting Guys
January 20, 2009 · Comments Off
eHarmony looks at twenty nine dimensions of compatibility when it matches you up with other dating site members and the questions you answer are divided into five areas. Agreeableness, Openness, Emotional Stability, Conscientiousness and Extraversion are the categories that will evaluate your compatibility with potential matches. In addition to the traditional questions such as your willingness to date a smoker, the importance of religion, drinking habits, and others, the personality test goes beyond that.
You will be asked to evaluate your own views of yourself, as well as your friends views of you, and what is important to you, in simple Least-to-Most and True and False formats. As you move forward with the test, you will notice a percentage completed bar on each single page of the test. That way you know where you are at and how far from the completion of the test you are at each given point.
Dont have time to complete the test? Save your answers and go back to it at a later time. Once the test is completed the results are available to you right away. You get a complete personality report with definitions for each category, as well as one sentence summaries, the words that describe you, explanation of how you interact with people and how people may react whether it is positively or negatively towards your behavior in different situations. The best thing about the test is that it is pretty accurate. Understanding your own personal traits as well as your behavior patterns and how other people react to you is a great thing to know even if you are not looking for a mate right now. It helps you not only in your dating life and your relationship with your mate, but also in your professional endeavor and in general everyday life.
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