January 26th, 2009 · Comments Off
Who else want to learn how to meet more women but WITHOUT looking desperate or without options? I hope you said you do…..because there is NOTHING I hear asked more online than how to score with beautiful girls. The simple truth is that women are FAR more simple creatures than many of you guys give us credit for…which for those of you who are smart, makes it FAR easier to get more dates (and more sex!) if you know what you’re doing. Let’s take a quick look at some ways I’d recommend you try if you’re heading out on the town this weekend. Read on.
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No one likes a man who approaches them at 2am looking for a late night score. If you really want to hook up with her, get at her early in the night – make conversation, even try to get her number BEFORE last call comes rolling around. Remember 2 things guys: We are there to meet men like YOU….and we are NOT stupid! If you come strolling up when the lights come on, we know you are both DESPERATE and looking for something quick and easy, which is NOT a turn on. But….if we’ve already met and you come BACK over at the very same time with the exact same shtick, the chances are FAR better that WE may say – “why not?” and simply waltz ALL the way back to your place as well.
I can’t tell you this any simpler than the following: Every time you see a single girl out with her friends, on the town, in a bar/restaurant or nightclub – I don’t care HOW seemingly disinterested she appears, she’s there to meet someone. She may not even admit it to HERSELF…..but trust me when I tell you, I’ve BEEN there, and she is! (and I was, too) The smarter and MORE suave you appear when you make your move, the LESS likely she is to roll her eyes and roll you back – I guarantee it!
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January 23rd, 2009 · Comments Off
- Pull the trigger: – Do you want a new best friend or a new girlfriend? Only you can answer that question for yourself and only you can determine which ends up happening. Eventually you will develop a clock in your head naturally that will tell you when to progress things to the phone or in person, but until you do be mindful of your actions. Sure you can have a great chat buddy, but the next guy will be dating her if you sit on your butt and don’t make a move. Do not be afraid to be bold. Even if she isn’t ready for the next step, chances are you will be able to gage how close she is by her response.
- You’re a grown up. Act like one: – This is the #1 rule of thumb in my opinion when it comes to online dating period. You are a mature grown man and you need to convey that in everything you do. Ask yourself before you’re about to write or post anything to any of your profiles, “is this childish?” If you can’t come up with a clear answer, you probably know you shouldn’t do it.
- Stalking is illegal! Be genuine and make the women comfortable: – This is a very serious concern for women who post their personal information online. You cannot stop creeps online, so you have to make sure you do not come off as one. This should take common sense and could be simple as giving her some space. People do have lives away from the PC you know!
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January 20th, 2009 · Comments Off
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You will be asked to evaluate your own views of yourself, as well as your friends views of you, and what is important to you, in simple Least-to-Most and True and False formats. As you move forward with the test, you will notice a percentage completed bar on each single page of the test. That way you know where you are at and how far from the completion of the test you are at each given point.
Dont have time to complete the test? Save your answers and go back to it at a later time. Once the test is completed the results are available to you right away. You get a complete personality report with definitions for each category, as well as one sentence summaries, the words that describe you, explanation of how you interact with people and how people may react whether it is positively or negatively towards your behavior in different situations. The best thing about the test is that it is pretty accurate. Understanding your own personal traits as well as your behavior patterns and how other people react to you is a great thing to know even if you are not looking for a mate right now. It helps you not only in your dating life and your relationship with your mate, but also in your professional endeavor and in general everyday life.
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